“Look, I am placing before you today a blessing and a curse.
The blessing, that (if) you heed the commandments of HaShem your God that I am
commanding you today. And the curse, if you do not heed the commandments of
HaShem your God and you veer from the course which I command you this day, to
follow other gods which you did not know.”
~ Devarim 11:26-28
From the course which I command you this day, to follow
etc. This teaches that anyone who worships idols has strayed from the
entire course commanded to Israel. From here we learn that anyone who admits to
idolatry denies the entire Torah.
~ Rashi on Devarim 11:28
Rashi’s explanation underscores the frightful gravity of the
offense of worshipping gods beside HaShem, which is a viewed as a direct
affront to God and a rejection of the entire Torah. This message is
communicated repeatedly in Sefer Devarim (see, for instance, the reiteration of
the Ten Commandments, Devarim 5:6-18, and later in our Parsha, 12:28-13:17).
This pointed injunction against the worshiping of other gods
can prompt us to consider its correlates in interpersonal situations.
I’m confident that, if I asked what constitutes a similar
unforgivable betrayal in a marriage, most people would answer “adultery.” If I
considered what was the most painful betrayal for a child, it might be a
situation where his/her parents violated his trust or acted in a way that
showed they had no confidence in her skills or judgment.
In the same vein, what would be a painful betrayal of a good
friend? Or a professional colleague you work with frequently? Or an aging,
sometimes forgetful, and occasionally difficult parent?
And if we accept that every potential offense exists on a
continuum, from slight to severe, are there small betrayals we commit without
thinking more commonly?