Parshas VaYigash – Thoughts on the first Rashi

“And Yehudah approached him [Yoseph] and said: Please my master let your servant speak a word in my master’s ears, and do not be angry with your servant, for you are equal to Pharoah.”

Bereshis 44: 18

And Yehudah approached … in my master’s ears. [Meaning] May my words penetrate your ears.

Rashi’s comment on Bereshis 44:18.

The scene – Yoseph (in the guise of the Egyptian prime minster) has just told his brothers that, because his attendant found Yoseph’s golden cup in Binyamin’s sack, he (Yoseph) intends to detain Binyamin as a slave while releasing the remaining brothers. Yehudah approaches to make an impassioned plea for clemency. Rashi points out that Yehudah was not merely protesting or ‘getting something off his chest’ but rather was intent to make an impact on Yoseph with his appeal.

We can parse the first verse of the parsha and see Yehudah’s care in initiating his appeal. He starts with the word “please,” he addresses Yoseph as “my master,” he asks that Yoseph not get angry at his [Yehudah’s] effort to appeal, and he concludes with flattery, stating that Yoseph is Pharoah’s equal. In all, it’s a very diplomatic start to a very important pitch.

Perhaps we can learn from Yehudah’s example. There are times when each of us faces a very troubling situation, with doubtful prospects. In such circumstances we may feel that the matter is hopeless, unjust, or even infuriating. Despite the pull of these emotions, if we can compose ourselves and appeal respectfully to the ‘powers that be’, we may yet be able - with God’s help - to pull some small success from the jaws of defeat. 

Parshas Mikeitz – Thoughts on the First Rashi

"And it was at the end of two years, and Pharaoh dreamt that he was standing by the Nile"

Bereshis 41:1

Rashi says on the first part of the pasuk: "As the Targum translates 'at the end,' because also such usages of 'keitz' imply the end of something." Rabbi Yissocher Frand writes that there is an obvious question that can be asked on this pasuk: what happened during this two year interval that just ended? At the end of last week's Parsha, Rashi quoted a Medrash that explains what happened during this period. Rashi says that because Yosef put his trust in the Butler, by asking the Butler to put in a good word for him with Pharaoh, Yosef was punished. His stay in jail extended by two full years because of two words that he spoke -- "u'zchartani, v'hotzaisani" (and remember me and take me out).

Rashi refers to an enigmatic Medrash Rabbah at the beginning of this week's Parsha. The Medrash says: "'Happy is the man who places his trust in G-d… [Tehillim 40:5] -- this refers to Yosef -- and turned not to the arrogant and to strayers after falsehood [ibid.] -- whose sentence in jail was extended for two years because of the two words he said to the butler." This Medrash contains an internal contradiction. At first it singles out Yosef as the prime example of a person who places his trust in G-d. Then it turns around and says, because Yosef asked the butler to put in a good word for him and did not trust G-d sufficiently, he was punished with two extra years in jail. Which way is it? Is it Yosef who had Bitachon [trust] or is Yosef a person who puts his trust in people?

Rabbi Frand says that there are two basic approaches to answer this question. Rav Eliyahu Lopian, the Beis HaLevi, and many others use the approach that Bitachon is a relative concept that depends on a person's level. For instance, the Ramba"n states in Parshas Bechukosai that the Talmudic teaching [Brochos 60a] which tells us that it is permitted to seek medical treatment, and for doctors to practice medicine, based on the verse "and he shall surely heal" [Shmos 21:19], is only a permission for "everyday people." However, those individuals who live on such a high level that they put all their trust in G-d, should not go to doctors. They can (and perhaps should) rely on miracles. The Ramba"n says, a normal person who conducts himself in all matters "based on the laws of nature," must use a doctor.

Similarly, we find in Gemara Brochos [35b] a disagreement between Rav Shimon bar Yochai and Rav Yishmael regarding how a person should balance his obligation to learn Torah with his need to support himself and his family. Rav Yishmael says that a person should work, and set aside regular times for learning Torah. Rav Shimeon bar Yochai’s opinion is that a person should sit and learn and G-d will send him a livelihood. The Talmud says that many people followed the teaching of Rav Yishmael and were successful and many people followed the teaching of Rav Shimeon bar Yochai and were unsuccessful. The level of Rav Shimeon bar Yochai was not appropriate for the masses. There are individuals who are on that level, and for them G-d will send them their livelihood - but this is not to be common practice.

Bitachon, according to Rav Eliyahu Lopian, is a relative concept that depends on the level of the individual. If one clings to G-d, does everything for the Sake of Heaven, and is perfectly righteous, then it is true that G-d will provide for him. G-d will take care of his sicknesses, and He will feed and sustain him. The person will not have to make any human effort. However, if one is a normal human being, not only is he allowed to make an effort (hishtadlus) for his living and his health, but he is obligated to make that effort.

This is the interpretation of the Medrash. "'Happy is the one who places his trust in Hashem' -- this refers to Yosef." Yosef was of such a stature that he put his entire trust in G-d. He was a Tzadik, who was a pillar of the world. Therefore, commensurate with the type of person he was, he was obligated not to make an effort. He should have remained at his level of trusting in G-d alone and not seeking human intervention (by the butler). For Yosef to step down from this level was in fact a sin, says Rav Eliyahu Lopian, and so he was punished with two extra years in jail. 

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Parshas VaYeishev - a thought on the first Rashi

“And Yaakov settled in the land of his father’s residence, in the land of Canaan.”

Bereshis 37:1

Yaakov settled. “Another explanation of “Yaakov settled”; There was once a particular flax dealer whose camels arrived laden with flax. The blacksmith wondered: ‘Where will all this flax be stored?” There was a wise man there who responded: ‘Just one spark that goes out from your bellows can burn it all.’ Likewise, Yaakov saw all the chiefs of Esau enumerated above [enumerated in Bereshis 36:8 – 43]. He wondered and said: ‘Who could vanquish them all?’ What is written later? ‘These are the histories of Yaakov, Yosef.’ For it is written: ‘The House of Yaakov shall be a fire and the House of Yosef a flame, and the House of Esau straw.’ In other words, a spark will go out from Yosef and consume them all. ~ from an old edition of Rashi.”

- Rashi on Bereshis 37:1

It’s striking that the more things change, the more they stay the same. We read reports of the vicious anti-Semitism of Hamas, Hezbollah, the regime in Iran, and other prominent groups in Israel’s neighborhood. We learn about efforts by terrorist groups and governments bordering Israel to arm themselves with powerful weapons and to seek pretexts to launch them at Israeli civilian centers. And members of the Jewish community worry – how will Israel withstand these challenges? Will the US President support Israel properly? Will the American people continue to support Israel? Will American Jewry continue to support Israel? And what will all this mean to Israel?

 

Of course, there are no guarantees. And none of us are prophets. Yet Rashi’s comment tells us that, if the Jewish people are deserving, the largest and most disproportionate threat is easily dispatched. It is up to each of us to work on our own mitzvah observance, and our own faith in God, which in turn can make our people, collectively, deserving of such divine benevolence

Parshas Vayishlach - Considering Rashi's comment on Yaacov's message to Eisav

In the beginning of Parshas Vayishlach, Yaacov sends the following message to his brother Eisav: "I have lodged with my father-in-law Lavan and therefore I have been gone for so many years." Rashi comments that the word 'Garti,' which means 'I have lodged,' has the numerical equivalent of 613. This represented an additional message to Eisav, that despite having lived with Lavan for all of these years, Yaacov was still able to perform the 613 Mitzvos and was not influenced by Lavan’s evil ways.

One may ask, why would Yaacov want to send this message to Eisav. Yaacov’s entire strategy with regard to Eisav was one of appeasement. Yaacov prepared elaborate gifts for Eisav and even was ready to bow down to him. He would do anything to avoid a deadly conflict with Eisav and his militia. Why then would Yaacov make a seemingly boastful statement which hints at Yaacov’s superiority and worthiness of receiving his father’s blessings?

Further on in the Parsha Yaacov took his family across the river and he then remained alone on the other side. It was at this time that the angel of Eisav wrestled with Yaacov. Many commmentaries ask about the meaning of the phrase 'And Yaacov remained alone'. What is the significance of this? Rabbi Gedalya Schorr ZT'L explains that this is a reference to Yaacov's strength of character. Whereas many people are strongly influenced by the opinions of others, Yaacov was able to act purely based on what he thought was correct. Even when among other who disapprove of and ridicule his ways, Yaacov was able to remain 'alone', and not be pressured to change. As an example, Yaacov was ridiculed in Lavan's household, for his honesty and for constantly falling for Lavan’s tricks. Despite being laughed at and ridiculed, Yaacov continued to do what he knew was right. He faithfully watched Lavan’s sheep, even when it kept him up all night.

This can perhaps explain Yaacov’s message to Eisav. In order to avert a potential conflict, Yaacov was ready to show his subservience to Eisav. He would bow down, and do whatever was necessary to appease Eisav, but Yaacov wanted to clearly delineate how far he will go. The message to Eisav was, I will bow to you, and I will appease you, but I will not allow myself to be influenced negatively by you, even if this is your desire. Yaacov's ability to remain independent was the source of his strength, and he could not compromise on that.

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Parshas Vayeitzei – Thoughts on the First Rashi

“Yaakov left Beersheva and went toward Charan.”

Bereshis 28:10

Yaakov left. Since it was due to the fact that the daughters of Canaan were evil in the eyes of his father, Yitzchok, that Eisav went to Yismael [to take Yishmael’s daughter, as a wife], the text interrupted the narrative of Yaakov and wrote: “Eisav saw that Yitzchok blessed, etc.” and when the text finished, it went back to the previous subject.”

Rashi on Bereshis 28:10

Towards the end of last week’s parsha we learned that, on Rivkah’s urging, Yitzchok told Yaakov explicitly not to marry a Canaanite woman, sent him to Padan Aram to seek a wife, and blessed him. The text then detoured to tell us, in four verses, that Eisav observed all this and realized that his parents disapproved of his Canaanite wives. So Eisav went and took another, non-Canaanite wife.  In this week’s parsha Yaakov’s story resumes and Rashi appears to be stating that the episode about Eisav, though worth noting, was not the essential story so now the text returns to the primary subject.

I understand Rashi to be making an assertion about the Torah’s view of proper story telling, especially in regards to our spiritual role models. The Torah is stating that Yaakov, our forefather, is the main story of the narrative and not Eisav - his brother, sometime nemesis, and the generally less wholesome character.

In my experience, in our own storytelling we often dwell on the more colorful and less savory characters. As an example – I went online to determine which Star Wars character is considered the most popular. On the highest-ranking fan-based lists I found, Darth Vadar (the bad guy) easily outscored Luke Skywalker and Princess Leia, the unvarnished heroes of the first trilogy. In this vein we might also consider the continued public interest in the more tasteless and/or amoral entertainment figures such as Lady Gaga, Chris Brown, Snooki, the Kardashians, Tiger Woods, Sarah Silverman, and others.

The Torah does not devote any attention to tales of Eisav’s courtships, married life, family dynamics, livelihood, relations with his neighbors, and any scandals he created. The Torah only comments on Eisav as he relates directly to Yitzchok and Rivkah or to Yaakov. In sharp contrast, the Torah tells us a great deal about Yaakov’s personal life. The message in the story is clear – for our purposes, it’s best to focus on the good guys.

Parshas Toldos – Thoughts on the first Rashi

“These are the descendants of Yitzchok son of Abraham. Abraham was the father of Yitzchok. Yitzchok was 40 years old when he took Rivkah, the daughter of Besueil the Aramite, of Padam Aram, sister of Lavan, the Aramite, to be his wife.”

[Bereshis 25:19-20]

These are the descendants of Yitzchok. (This refers to) Yaakov and Esau who are discussed in this parsha.

There are apparently two ways to translate the word “Toldos” – as either “the descendants of" or as “the chronicles of.” Rashi is intent on the first translation and is thus pressed to explain when the phrase is used in the Torah and is not immediately followed with a list of children, such as the instance cited above which uses the word “Toldos” and then tells us about Yitzchok's relationship with Abraham.¹

The Sforno (and others) differs from Rashi and understands the word “Toldos” to mean “the chronicles of.” Sforno explains that the Torah first states “These are the chronicles of Isaac, son of Abraham,” and then restates “Abraham was the father of Yitzchok,” to make the point that only Yitzchok is considered the true and worthy heir of Abraham, which we see in the accounts in this week’s parsha of how Yitzchok led his life.

The comment of Sforno can prompt us to consider a basic question – are we leading our own lives in ways that would lead other people to see us as worthy heirs of Abraham? The Torah is timeless and thus the message in this verse, as understood by Sforno, is not merely a history lesson – it is meant to provoke us to introspection as well.   

1 = Rashi faces a similar problem with the first verse of Parshas Noach, which uses the word “Toldos” and then tells us that Noach was a righteous person.

Parshas Chaye Sarah - Thoughts on the first Rashi

“Sarah’s lifetime was one hundred years, and twenty years and seven years the years of Sarah’s life” (Bereishis 23:1). Rashi comments, the fact that the word “shanah” (years) is repeated, the Torah was adding a message – that of, when Sarah was 100 years old, she was like 20 years old regarding sin – there is no liability for divine punishment until 20. When she was 20 years old, she was like a seven year-old for beauty.

Rav Yosef Dov Soloveitchik, zt”l commented that a person goes through different stages in life – infancy, childhood, adolescence, young adulthood, middle age and old age. Normally, when we complete one stage and advance to the next stage we leave the earlier stage behind us. We may cherish fond memories, but that chapter of our life is closed. At age 100, a person would have acquired much wisdom – wisdom that only comes with life experience. At 20, a person is full of energy, vitality and idealism. The age of 7 represents innocents and purity.

Chazal are teaching us, that regardless of how old Sarah was at any point in her life, Sarah had within her the attributes of a 7 year old (purity & innocence), the attributes of a 20 year old (vitality and idealism) and the attributes of 100 year old (wisdom and experience).

To a 7 year old, G-d is a reality. When you want something, you simply ask Hashem for it. Their prayer is pure. Most of us no longer have this innocence in our prayer. We have been swayed by the unpredictable happenings of life. The 20 year-old is full of idealism, and the 100 year-old is full of wisdom.

Sarah, on the other hand, was able to blend these characteristics together throughout her life. At the age of 50 (or any age), she had the purity and innocence of a 7 year-old in her belief in G-d as the Almighty was real and untainted. At the same age, she had youthful idealism and energy of a 20 year-old. With this, she had the wisdom of an old lady. She never left behind the stages of life that she “outgrew” rather she took the positive attributes of each stage and applied them as she continued to advance through life’s stages. The goodness of her life was equally distributed. She was at the same time a child in her total faith, youthful in her exuberant enthusiasm and an adult in her maturity and judgment.

May we learn this lesson of how important it is to build on life’s experiences, to mature to greater heights and grow with life’s experiences. 

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